Perceptions of God
Question: What if everything you perceive God to be is a lie?
When the truth hits, it hits hard. In her book, The Real Boy, Author Anne Ursu describes this moment of truth beautifully. She says, “There is a way the truth hits you, both hard and gentle at the same time. It punches you in the stomach as it puts its loving arm around your shoulder …”
For most of my life I have blindly loved God without really understanding why or questioning whether God was real. Discovering everything I had ever believed God to be was a lie, felt like I had been sucker punched a deadly blow from behind, – yet at the same time, the moment, exquisite and freeing. The truth a loving arm around my shoulder.
Have you ever had one of those flashes when, unexpectedly, moments of extraordinary clarity, insight, or understanding explode into your mind? When the solution to a problem which you have struggled with for years suddenly becomes clear when you least expect it. They are rare, but life changing moments when they happen. That ‘Eureka moment’. I now call these my ‘moments of God’, not that I understood this at the time. I talk about ‘moments of God’ in a later post.
A few years ago, I had a significant crisis of the soul. It was dark, dark, dark and I was helpless to help myself. I decided to dump God for good. Enough was enough. The ‘yearning’ was exhausting, and my personal life was an utter mess. God was not behaving in the manner I believed God should. God was NOT answering my prayers. Not who I wanted and expected God to be. And then there were those questions. Why did God not feed the starving? Why did God allow injustice, wars, greed, power, rape, poverty and disease? Why were some babies born just to die? Six million Jews and minority groups massacred during the holocaust. Couldn’t you have stepped in, God? Why? Why? Why?
So there I was, drowning in my own darkness, my life unravelling, walking away from God. Then that moment of truth. ‘What if everything you perceive me to be is a lie?’ The question, answer and understanding tumbled through me in one trillionth of a totally unexpected second. And it was. Everything I had perceived God to be was a lie. And in that moment, I let God go. No more bother. I stacked away my journals, bible and any other God paraphernalia, and left my God.
But life doesn’t work like that. You can’t keep running from the endless wandering of your soul without understanding what you are running from, why you are running and where you are running to. To begin with I felt utterly bereft, bewildered, and to be honest, I felt stupid. As though I had wasted fifty years of my life believing in a God who, at the very worst, was not real or, if God was real, my perception of God was a lie. At the same time, I felt rejuvenated. Free. Like I was about to embark on a thrilling adventure. Tinges of excitement fluttered alongside my bewilderment.
It’s been approximately ten years since my ‘moment of God’. The jolt of the unanticipated moment, and the words, so inordinately profound and insightful, has taken time to process. Before I could even consider sharing this experience, there was a huge amount of work to be done on me. For most of this time I’ve been shedding the shackles of religion and exploring answers to my questions about God.
It’s a provoking question: What if everything I perceive God to be, or not to be, is a lie? It nudges, irks and challenges our spiritual ego. It’s a question that excludes no-one – a God question that includes the atheist to the most ‘devout’. A question daring us to let go of our perceptions of God. A question worth going back to time and time again because of the potential to discover new and greater possibilities of God every time we ask it.
It is only now, in hindsight, I can see my journey away from God, was in fact, leading me to God.